About Us

Eternal Idol (green)

We are a happily married couple who have discovered the key to maintain (or to reignite) passion in a marriage or committed relationship is for the man to worship the woman as his goddess and to submit to her authority.

We created this blog to help promote Wife-Led Marriage, Female-Led Relationships and Loving Female Authority. For us this FemDom dynamic applies within the confines of marriage, but the principles certainly apply to any committed relationship.

Note however, we do not necessarily advocate or endorse all of the practices or beliefs that some people may assume to be “requirements” of this lifestyle. Apart from a few basic elements we feel are necessary for a Female Led Relationship to be satisfying to both parties, this lifestyle can be anything two people want it to be.

Goddess V writes in color (but not very often).
VeezKnight writes in black.

Comments and questions are welcome.

21 Responses to “About Us”

  1. Interestingly enough, the original inspired scriptures teach both female sovereignty and female discipline in the home.

  2. Love Some Advise!
    I first want to thank you for all the insite your books and website have provided me. My husband and I have been married for 20 years and have been practising a femdom marraige for many years but only seriously for maybe six years, mostly in the bedroom, some descretely outside the bedroom and in public. Over time I continuie to slowly raise the bar by giving my husband new and more difficult challenges that generaly drive him deeper into submission and heighten my sexual arrousal. The next step I am contiplating is one that could have serious implications and one I have thought hard about for a sometime. It’s a step my husband has expressed to me in his deepest submissive moments and one that he says scares him to death. But we both crave it badly. This next step is to bring our femdom marriage out into the open and practice it more openly in our home and in front of family and friends.
    We have two beautiful daughters still living at home one just turned 18 and the other is 19. I have been holding off as long as I can with this next step but I think the time has come to begin talking with my daughters about female superiority and female domination. I am struggling on how to proceed and if they are old enough to understand and further confused with what is right and wrong or appropriate with regards to exposing our daughters to our femdom marriage. I must preface this by saying that both of my daughters are asking a lot of questions as they see there Dad being strickly controled and watch him do countless daily chores. Both girls have commented about how Dad is so submissive to me and how much control I have over him. Both girls have expressed several times that they hope to find a man just like Dad. I am loving the way they are thinking.
    I am very fortunate to have found a naturaly submissive husband which I love dearly and so cherish these past years of molding him to my wants and needs through strick training. I cannot put into words what it does to me to empower him and control him primarly through orgasm denial and corporal punishment to way beyond what most others can understand. I am in a constant state of arrousal watching him spend many hours a day trying to please me by completing grueling chores to perfection, focusing on intence mental tasks while restained for long periods of time and then servicing my personal needs usually late into the night with little or no sleep. I with out question believe in what we practice in our marriage and want to stop hiding it in the bedroom and bring it out in the open where appropriate in front of my daughters, family and friends.
    My oldest daughter is going to be going to our local community college this fall for two years and my 18 year old has one more year in high school and does not know forsure what she wants to do, but most likely both girls will be living at home for the next couple years or more. My question centers around what is appropriate in our household and are my girls at an age to be exposed to our femdom marriage. My husband does most all the chores in our house with exception of the main bathroom which the girls share, and the girls bedrooms. For years the girls have handled these chores. Both girls are very busy and now have taken on jobs to help pay for there schooling which is terrific so I think my husband should have to add these chores to his agenda. Maintaining there bedrooms, making ther beds each morning and cleaning and maintaining there bathrooms. Do you see anything wrong with this? A year ago I added to my husbands weekly agenda the chore of doing all the household laundry including the girls which he does twice a week.
    My next questions center around what is appropriate in our household beyond the chores.
    I should add a bit about my daughters here just so you have a complete picture. Both girls currently have boyfriends and both have exprienced sex. Neither is naive, both are quite comfortable with there bodies and often run around the house in just there underpants even if Dad is around. When Dad is not around they have no problem running around naked or sunbathing nude on our private deck. About a month ago the youngest brought up the subject of our local nude beach and how she and a girl friend of hers checked it out. I probed her about it and learned that my little girl is growing up. I was surprised with how comfortable she seemed to be with her body and nudity. She informed me that she thought I am such a prude at times. Little does she know I have been to this same nude beach several times as I love to parade my hubby in his Lori tube (I love to give him a dose of humiliation from time to time).
    Both girls are agressive and assertive in life which I really love and I think it is time to broaden there horizons. I have been truely fortunate to have very open relationships with my girls, we often talk openly about drugs, alcohal and sex. Recently the girls and I went to the youngest girl’s soccer game out of state so we had a long car ride and boy they really hit me between the eyes when the topic of sex came up and how I probed into there sex lives and expected them to be open with me but that it was not fair that I was not being open with them about mine and specificly about how I dominate there Dad.
    I had to agree with them and little do they know how much I would love to talk, share and expose them to my femdom lifestyle. But I want to make sure I do not hinder the wonderful mother daughter relationships I have with both girls. I have a list below of topics that are swirling around my head and would love to hear your thoughts on subjects like: (1) Exposing the fact that I have thier Dad in chastity, and that he is never permitted to masturbate. (2) Orgasm denial, I do not permit him orgasms more frequently than monthly, usually he has to go several months between releases. (3) Should the girls see there Dad knell? (4) Should they see him naked or wearing his Lori tube? (5) Should they see him in his collar or on a leash. (6) Should they be allowed to give him instruction? I might love this one. (7) Should they hear or witness a punishment? (8) Little do they know that there Dad gets serious corner time, never less than two hours, normaly more, should they get to observe this? (9) Should they know their Dad is wearing panties, should they observe this? (10) Should they know I control all the money and finances to the extent that he does not have his name on any of our bank accounts, the house, cars, business and only gets a meager weekly allowance when he is good.

    May I also ask you what you think is appropriate in the general public or in front of other family, friends, coworkers and what you think is crossing the line.
    I want to take this next step so badly and have waited so long making sure the timing is right and appropiate. The thought of subjecting my husband to this incredible humiliation and what it will ultimately do for me just makes my body shutter. Then most of all showing and teaching my daughters all about femdom marraige.

    Thanks, Sherri
    PS It is ok to post this, as I aould love to get comments.

  3. Dear Sherri,

    Hmmm. Your daughters have reached adulthood, so I guess most things are okay if the four of you are comfortable with them. It is of course especially important that the submissive, your husband, really wants to be humiliated in front of his children, family and friends.

    You keep asking what is appropriate. There must be a million answers to that question, and millions of people who would find the way you dominate your man totally inappropriate. Such people are entitled to their opinion, and you guys are entitled to lead the life that makes you happy, as long as you are not abusing anyone.

    Let me give you a very personal answer. By the way, I am a slightly submissive straight man in his Fifties married to a woman who is strong but not kinky. I would hope that while dominating your husband, you do show him respect and love, and do not destroy his dignity, even if he asks you to. I hope you allow and encourage him to be a proud submissive. I would hope that you would do this both in private and in public. I imagine that his daughters would not mind seeing you subjugate or even punish him, as long as they feel you are not being cruel or nasty. It’s already perfectly obvious that you are the boss. They like that, but that does not necessarily mean that they would like seeing their father treated badly.

    Don’t get me wrong. If in private the two of you are excited by playing scenes of cruelty and degradation, then be my guest. That’s not what excites me, but hey, it takes all kinds to make a world. But I do think that should be private. The reason is simple. When you are alone, you are in full control of what happens. In public, you are not. Willingly or accidentally, you might expose your husband to a kind and a level of humiliation that is not fun at all, but really nasty. I imagine that you would want to avoid that. You may even need to protect him against such situations.

    By all means dominate him, but please take care of him.

    Good luck

    The Gruffalo

  4. I can’t imagine anyting other than a wife led marriage.

  5. 1, 2 and 4 no. All the rest quite definitely yes

  6. I say pareny’s sexuality should be kept to parents without exceptions… however, talking about female supremacy is NOT just sexual, it is ideology. Saying to your daughters you control the finances are dominant etc. is OK, but I think you should NEVER let them see there father naked, humiliated, punished, know about the chastity regime he has or doesn’t have…

    if you are very open maybe you can talk about these subjects in theory, but please don’t cross the line of talking about them as they applt ro your sexual life! Let them explore sex on there own account, not having a parental image on the back of the mind when being dominant or engaging in say, humiliation play or in punishing a submissive.

    Also, even within a patriarchy xhildren must respect mothers. WHY would femdom be different? a dad is a dad and they must respect him, not order him around. He might be a male, but he is still a parent!

    Good luck. I hope you find my opinion helpful.

  7. You are thr boss. He has to do whatever you say. It does not matter who is present.

    • The Woman is the boss, but she should never cross the line of degrading her male below the dignity any living thing, especially a human being, and a loved one deserves. The male is a loved property and a living animal, a homo-sapiens that the Superior Woman should dominate, domesticate, and do so with love but a firm hand (oh, and a whip always helps).

      • Exactly as Gina says above. The woman is the boss so, this is up to her. He may or may not agree however, it is not his place to question her will.

        This seems to me to be a topic which should have been discussed when the topic of limits where explored.

        Myself, I wouldn’t involve the children in your relationship. My wife is very strict however, very loving. We both understand why we do what we do but, we have raised our children to have their own wants and their own desires, to live their lives to the fullest. The choices they make for their sexuality are entirely their own. We have done our best to teach our children how to be happy with who they are but, this has nothing to do with our sexual relationship. You may be opening a can of worms best left unopened. Leave your daughters to discover themselves, their choices are not your choices any longer, accept this, and let the young ladies blossom and grow on their own now. I am certain they understand who wears the pants in your home. I would leave it there if were you.

  8. looking to learn !

  9. I say, u shud humiliate ur husband without any botheration n regardless of who is present while u r humiliating him… I wud love to hav such a wife who will humiliate me even in front of childrens, friends or any1… She shud hav total control n total authority… even if my daughters n my mother in law humiliates me i wud b v much happy… I will b blessed to hav a wife like you…

  10. Also i think tht u shud ask ur hubby daily to smell n clean ur dirty asshole instead of tissue paper aftr u had laterine n drink ur piss everytime u hav…

  11. VK and Goddess V,

    You two are so awesome! I found your blog searching for information on loving female authority. A few days before I found your blog, I got the idea to write my own blog about the subject and my experiences. There seems to be a serious lacking in quality, practical information on the subject. Having established that, your writings are refreshing

  12. VK and Goddess V,

    You two are so awesome! I found your blog searching for information on loving female authority. A few days before I found your blog, I got the idea to write my own blog about the subject and my experiences. There seems to be a serious lacking in quality, practical information on the subject. Having established that, your writings are so refreshing! You two are funny, intelligent, tactful, and inspiring. Thanks for sharing with us!


    A Loving Yet Dominant Wife

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  19. This is the correct way to live. Women should always dominate and control men. We need to educate the world about this reality. We should start teaching boys that they have to obey girls and start taking advice and guidance from them from and early stage. Girls should be given the confidence to lead and dominate boys all the time.

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